Modesty is Classy

While there are many characteristics that a classy woman embodies, I think we all can agree that being modest is one of them. Nobody likes a braggart or someone who parades around flaunting what they have from their killer legs to their 7 figure bank account balance. There is absolutely nothing wrong with working hard and ultimately obtaining financial success or in putting in numerous hours at the gym to create a beautiful physique and enjoying the rewards of both. It’s when we intentionally flash it in another person’s face that it becomes distasteful, off-putting and downright obnoxious at times. Having said that, even if we’re not deliberately parading around, it’s still important to always be aware and err on the conservative side.

I became lately looking a reality TV display that follows the lives of a few ladies and although I’m not typically a large fan of what I refer to as senseless tv (smooth watching at the quit of an extended day that doesn’t require essential thinking or whatever too heavy), I nonetheless get amusing and find factors from such indicates that inspire my writing. These supposed a success girls all vary of their backgrounds however they have got one element in commonplace: wealth, an prosperous life-style and all of them show up to stay within the equal city. I watched as one woman felt the want to constantly remind all and sundry round her approximately her beyond career titles, accomplishments and to be able to make herself relevant nowadays (which sincerely simply discovered her insecurities), she could now not prevent repeating herself and speaking approximately her present day business ventures and the organization to which she is constructing, a good deal to the dismay of these round her who’ve heard it all one too generally. To make topics worse, she is a name dropper. Aside from this notion, she honestly looks like a a laugh, outgoing lady and type buddy so it’s instead unfortunate that this lack of humility has tarnished her recognition and negatively influences how others regard her.

There is a certain confidence that every classy woman possesses which allows her to be content with modesty and be herself so there is no need to show off or try to get the attention of others, especially men . Does she feel 100% self-assured in every single situation in life? Of course not. We all have fears, doubts and sometimes nerves that get the best of us, she is aware of her areas for improvement as well as her limitations. How we choose to channel those emotions and project them into the world though makes a big difference in how we are perceived. More than just perception, we want to truly live a life of authenticity and contentment both on the inside as well as the outside. What sense is there in appearing confident to others when you are in fact a self-sabotaging, self-ridiculing, person who doesn’t like herself and lacks true confidence an inner peace? In my last post, I wrote on How to Love Yourself. This is key in becoming a confident woman and only when were are first confident in who we are can we truly be modest and humble. There is no need to boast to seek approval from those around us.

For me, there may be not anything greater attractive than while a person is absolutely true and just comfortable. I love meeting someone and learning a piece approximately them however never as soon as listening to the aforementioned bragging in their lifestyles in any manner and then later on in time I analyze lots of really neat information which might be so share-worth however to them it is no longer important due to the fact they’re centered within themselves and don’t want others to validate who they may be by way of what they possess. We have buddies down the road (an older, retired couple) whom I determined out a couple years in the past are millionaires. I never would have guessed in one hundred years. It wasn’t until my husband befriended them (seeing them while he turned into outdoor studying or doing a chunk of backyard work and they’d walk their dog day by day and skip our residence) and ultimately they got speakme approximately life and commercial enterprise also, it really is when he discovered approximately what companies they have been involved in and more approximately their family lifestyles, and so on. They live in a modest home, force average automobiles, do not dress in fancy garb and are the sweetest couple-absolutely relatable. Women who are humble make others round them experience comfortable, which at the end of the day is what appropriate manners are all about.

If you’re looking for ways to dress more modestly yet stylish, you can take a peek at my last few fashion posts. See some great pieces and looks here , here , here and here.

In what ways do you make an effort to live a more modest life?

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